Life flows when we give and when we accept the blessings given to us. Expressing gratitude is not difficult, but certainly is necessary. Being appreciative for the blessings bestowed on us, little or big, requires being in a place of gratitude. For when we ‘count our blessings’ we invite more blessings because we are showing appreciation.
Lately, I’ve been expressing my gratitude to God and to the Universe for the blessings which have been given to me. It seems that the more I thank God and the Universe for even the simplest of gifts, the more blessings flow to me. It’s that Law of Attraction mentality I think. Have you heard of Law of Attraction? I’ve written many posts on it before in my blog. Just search Law of Attraction and surely you’ll find more about it here.
I think in our busy lives we forget to be grateful for the simplest things which we take for granted. We become disconnected with the gifts we receive in our daily life. Just having shelter, food, health, love and income, bare minimums is a blessing that we forget to acknowledge for there are many who lack these minimums. Instead I think sometimes we are focused on what we don’t have or what we want, instead of what we currently have. It’s a different way of thinking for some, but it’s a choice in how you look at it.
Is that glass half full or half empty for you?
Or are you just grateful to have the glass that can be refilled?
That’s how life is – you choose how you look at things and you can choose again when you learn more about life. That’s the great part of life lessons! We learn and grow at different speeds, but as we connect, we learn more because we share our lessons with those who are interested in connecting.
I have learned so much from blogging friendships that we’ve made and from friends who have taken the time to share what they have learned from life lessons. My heartfelt thanks to all of you! I hope that in some way, I have helped you as well.
With the uncertainty of life, we let go when we have exhausted all means of control. Sometimes it takes us longer to finally come to the conclusion that there are simply parts of life that we must allow for we cannot stop them. For a planner like me, it’s always felt unacceptable. Searching my brain, I would try to come up with endless ways to make whatever situation better for me, my family, my friends ~ relentlessly trying to improve a situation that I found unacceptable because it was causing someone else or me pain.
But there are times now, after sleepless nights of fret, worry and planning, that I am learning, albeit slowly, to let go and to allow God and the Universe to proceed. What I’ve learned in the wee hours of the morning is to go with the flow, release, let the river take its course and have faith that as long as I can put my head on the pillow in peace, knowing I have done all with a loving heart, there is nothing more I can do.
However, it’s hard ~ this letting go. So I am learning to let go and let God ~ and let Him in.
I think it’s human nature to believe we’ve got this, we can figure it out and make it work. But we forget that there is God, the Universe and the Laws of Attraction who also carry us when we allow them to work their ‘magic’ as well.
Being in the present moment is a life lesson worth learning for me. I am watching my Mom struggle with Alzheimer’s and being in the present moment with her. Sometimes her present moment isn’t ‘reality’ but wherever her brain is at the time. So to honor her, we gather in her present moment and support her, enjoying whatever gifts we can.
It’s a shift of thinking that has taken me a long time to accept and to process in my own brain. However, love is accepting and above all, I love my Mom. So I accept where she is at any given moment. I’ve come a long way baby, but I still have much to learn.
Isn’t that the way life school is anyway? Learn, practice and love?
There are times in life when you just feel like you’re the only one who is enduring (insert whatever it is that you are experiencing). You may feel as if nobody understands your situation. You may even feel alone, untethered and grieving. It happens to all of us. It is a normal part of the ebb and flow in life.
But to reach beyond and out of the moment is where your lessons in life school challenge you to search within and to look up and all around you to connect with yourself, God, the Divine Universe and with others of like-mindedness. To find the positivity in any situation, to allow yourself to be present with the pain/hurt/disappointment and to find a sense of peace even while chaos swirls in one of life’s lessons is the key. It is in human eagerness the need to smooth the rough edges, to bypass the grief at all costs, to hide away the disconnect from ourselves and others and to make everything okay as soon as possible. Sure, wallowing in sadness cannot be limitless, but to experience what we are feeling, as we are feeling it and to connect with whatever we are feeling is beneficial. The choice to move beyond that to a place of peace no matter the circumstances is the lesson here. And as you know, for we have all had our trials and tribulations, it is not an easy task at times.
But it is possible…and it is your choice for you have free will.
Cloistered in self-pity, does not serve you, nor the world. It isolates people, disconnects them from reality and from those who want to help. But it takes courage to connect with others and to connect with our own hearts. It takes trust in the soul’s knowing that we can open up and be with whatever is happening. That’s the tough part which many of us find distasteful as we lack the trust within ourselves and therefore, lack trust in the Universal Truths of Life.
I have been there dear friends. I understand how you feel no matter if our circumstances are not the same. The bare fact is that the similar feelings join us in ways unbeknownst to most of us. Universal Healing happens when we connect through hearts and souls on this life path. The simple act of connecting with another soul, hearing and feeling that someone else understands, makes all the difference in the world.
So today, no matter what you are enduring, please know that I have my hand here for you hold. My heart is here to connect with yours and my understanding is available to help you to continue on this life path of healing. I have learned that in reaching out, we also benefit in our own healing and through connecting, we raise our vibrations, enthusiastically joining and reverberating peace throughout the world.
Shine your heartlights. Join together in peaceful presence. I see you shining!
It is truly time to allow, to let go and to find a way to not fix it all. I was/am? a person who liked to be in control. Not demanding mind you, (at least I didn’t think I was), but I liked to know the plan and execute it. We may sound similar if you are reading this post. But I have learned that through this journey, I’ve had to let go and it is still hard for me to do. But in letting go, I’ve opened up to an abundance of awareness, growth, love, friendship, connections with others and had an incredible soul journey that would not have been available to me had I stayed in the control, fix it place. Because, what hit me was the line, ‘who died and left you boss? You are not God,’ which I hope does not offend you, but perhaps gives you the added boost to see from an observer mode instead of the path ahead (that we had planned so carefully) that has literally fallen to pieces.
I see the path ahead now, strewn with debris and sometimes avalanches of emotion, hurt, betrayal and sadness. But there is still a path and as I take baby steps forward, I can clear the debris, learn from the experiences and keep moving on. I’ve found that there are others on this path that help me as I help you and as you help me to move forward. And then also to rest when needed.
I’m not asking you to give up control or to stop fixing…I’m only asking you to accept what is unacceptable as part of the journey of life and to find peace in your heart to welcome the lessons as they will make you stronger in body/mind/soul. It’s a great leap of faith that is your opportunity here. I’m not saying that you need to find God as I don’t even know how you feel about religion. I believe in God, Divinity and the Universe. I am comfortable in being spiritual and using what I learn by reading, by communicating and by connecting with others and I find that I am making my own way, picking and choosing what feels right to me at that time ~ and sometimes choosing again when it’s not serving me. That’s the beauty of life.
Many of us come to this life with the idea that everything should be hunky dory because we’ve worked so hard to make it be as such. We strive for the even keel and smooth sailing, but storms arise, even in nature and we must accept that piece in order to find peace. There comes a time in life when we need to grow, to expand our horizons, to search for our next level of understanding in life.
Fix yourself is the first lesson. Take care of you ~ nuture yourself, grow in your understanding, be patient with yourself and others, read, meditate and allow. Allowing yourself 5 minutes of silence in which to simply breathe and focus in the morning and at night helps. You are in charge of you. You are not in control of anyone else on the fixing level. Every single person has free will and can choose how they live their life. You are not God. Allow Him to do His job and you will see how amazing life can be!
“I’m convinced when each of us faces the end of life,
our only regrets will be the moments we chose
to turn away from people
instead of loving them deeply.”
This quote from Lori Lara touched me deeply when I read it. Perhaps it’s because each of our parents (her Mom, my Dad) passed away three years ago and as bloggers we connected during that time. Perhaps it is because her profound statement is from an experience and a healing that has taken us all at one time or another on a journey that we never expected to share.
It touches me to my core, reminding me of all the relationships, connections and disconnections in our lives and how they affect us. We cannot change the past, we know not where the future beckons and so, it is in the here and now that we rest, we love and we experience the rainbow that life experiences has to offer. To find the peace in the moment of now is the highest purpose in our lives. To let go of past hurts, acknowledge regrets and find love in every connection and relationship.
For we all have an expiration date that hangs over us and most of us do not know what it is. So we must continue to find the peace within ourselves and shine our heartlights out into the Universe. It is our legacy that we control, the memory in others hearts’ of how we connected that remains in our memories. To have had such an amazing experience with her Mom that she shares in her post, reminds me of myself with my Dad. Thank you Lori Lara for sharing that day with us and for sharing all that you and your Mom were able to heal before she passed.
There are moments when we can choose love over hurt and many of us do just that, for ourselves and for others. It’s not an easy choice and I’m not saying to be a doormat either. But I have regrets in my own relationships when I forgot to choose the love instead of the hurt. I’ve learned by my experiences and they have changed me.
I have been told that I am changed and it is true. The chaos of hurt can still swirl about me and it can ping at my soul as well, but I choose to love, to find peace within me and to continue to strive to shine my heartlight in the best way that I know how in this moment of time. Innately, I care about people, relationships and connecting, even when those with whom I choose to connect are having a tough time understanding my newfound peace. It is hard to remain true to myself at times, to hear the criticizing of the enrichment that I have found in my life, but I go on. For me, this change has been immeasurable and it is healing in itself and it is a gift for which I am forever grateful.
So shine your heartlight dearest friends, shine brightly the love that grows in your heart. It is your legacy that is held so dearly. Your loving heart in this moment in time is all we have for sure. Use it wisely, use it willingly and watch it grow. You are worthy. You are capable. You are YOU!
You are loved.
“Don’t waste your pain”
I heard Joel Osteen say the phrase above the other day and I can’t get it out of my mind. For me, it made perfect sense ~ when you are going through difficult times, reach out and connect with others. Don’t allow yourself to be isolated as we are never alone. Reach out, there’s a hand to hold, a heart to listen and arms to hug you.
I share on my blog because I feel as though someone out there may be going through what I’m enduring at the time. For me, it always feels better to hear ~ “Oh yes, you too? I thought it was only me” ~ because it’s never only you who experiences things. Each and every one of us has a story to tell, difficulties we are enduring and good times that come out of the lessons we learn as we grow with each and every experience.
So the next time you feel that nobody understands or that you are alone as I have felt in the past, reach out of your story, feel the warm embrace of others who are walking on their own journey, who hold compassion in their hearts, and are ready to share with you whenever you are ready. My heartfelt thanks to all of you who read, like and comment on my blog. Your sweet presence has been a balm to my soul so many times. I hope that you will feel my gratitude as I embrace you in my prayers. You are special. You are kind and caring. You are loved.
I’ve got my hand out, so take hold, receive my loving embrace and know that my heart is listening ~ we are all connected and as Ram Dass once said, “we’re all just walking each other home.”