Just a little mid-week reminder for those who choose love!
Just a little mid-week reminder for those who choose love!
Have you ever had a moment where you catch yourself thinking, “I can’t do that” or “That can’t happen because….” or the dreaded, “They don’t understand the complexity of the situation, that’s impossible!” or anything else along those lines?
I have encountered many facets of those limiting beliefs in my lifetime as I think many of us have. We forget, in the chaotic moment of fear, that there are limitless possibilities to any situation and the outcome does not have to only be what we project or believe could happen. No matter how convinced we are that we know how the experience will end or how the person will react or what will happen, the fact remains that we don’t know for certain. So many factors come into play in any given situation and it is our job to suspend our limiting beliefs to welcome the infinite possibilities that life provides.
We have a choice in every situation. We can choose hope or despair, limited beliefs or allowing God and the Universe to tap into a new experience. It is in making the conscious choice to choose hope and allow, that provides power to the situation, to the life lesson and to the mending of relationships. It is not that you are powerless though. It is that you are, in affect, joining forces with the Universe and God to learn and to grow with your new life lessons.
Failure is a dreaded word, but in not having a situation come out as we want it to, we often declare it a failure. However, failure is not necessarily what it is. Sometimes, failure is simply a way of opening a door to something new that had one succeeded the way we believed, we would not have been afforded this opportunity! There are life lessons all around us to be learned and many doors of opportunity remain locked when we do not change our limiting beliefs that ‘it must be this way‘ in order for our lives to be deemed successful or good in our eyes.
Time and again, I found myself knocking on a closed door of what I thought was failure, forgetting as the adage states, “when one door closes, another opens” or “when God closes a door, he opens a window.” Spiritually, I am letting go of my preconceived notions of success and failure and thus allowing infinite possibilities to flow without restriction. I’m suspending my limiting beliefs!
It’s a process as you can imagine and a change in outdated thinking that feels a bit uncomfortable as I stretch the limits of my own mind. But happily, I can report, it is helping me to gain perspective on all sorts of situations that I had once declared in my head, failures. With newfound thoughts, I see how much better my life is as I have eased into uncharted territories that I would have never had the courage to enter if I stayed small in my thinking. There’s a bliss to be had in this life! Let’s go and enjoy it!
Whew, I don’t know about you, but sometimes it’s mighty hard to stay in the present moment. With all of life’s busyness, I think sometimes we get caught up in the hubbub of what needs to be done today and we let being present fall by the wayside. Does this happen to you?
I know it happens to me.
Bills, appointments, responsibilities, paperwork and all the roles I play during day to day living sometimes have me running without a break to simply stop and smell the roses. To be in the stillness of the moment, whether alone or with someone else. To just feel the gift of being present.
Often, we live in a whirlwind where we scurry from moment to moment without hesitation when our lives are full and then we fall into our beds at night, exhausted from life in general. It’s hard to find a few minutes of peace to go within the stillness of our hearts. Meditation helps if we can find the time to still our minds for a respite, but more often than not, unless we are disciplined, other responsibilities take precedence. But meditation doesn’t have to be a formal time set exercise. It can simply be taking five minutes to really enjoy that cup of tea or coffee and relaxing our minds. It can be taking a quiet walk outside and listening to the birds or feeling the earth under our feet. It can be closing our eyes and enjoying the peaceful silence. We can think positive thoughts, speak affirmations that work for us, pray or just be grateful for this moment in time. I find that taking 10 minutes to simply free write helps me to clear the clutter from my brain which builds up after time. Even writing my blog allows me to be still and get into that place of peace.
What helps you to find stillness in the present moment?
Today, try to carve out a few minutes of peace for yourself. Breathe deeply, stay in the moment, be grateful for all that is in your life and be joyful for the blessings that you enjoy. Give yourself the gift of presence, even for a few precious moments today. You deserve the peace and tranquility that comes with it!
Whew! My plight has been resolved. Instagram took down my page that was hacked. My heartfelt gratitude to those who helped by reporting the impersonation of my page and the images which were not mine. What a fiasco, but I am ever grateful to those who took the time to help me and to those of you who reached out via my blog.
It’s a good lesson to learn that even though there are those out there in cyberland who choose to hack, to impersonate and to live on the dark side; there are also those who have your back, make the effort to do good and to help when needed. For this, I am ever grateful.
Some tips I read on the Instagram site if you are ever in this predicament, and can’t log into your account for whatever reason, are:
Tell your friends to report it as “this profile is pretending to be someone” and not as pornography or spam.
I researched through the Instagram site, trying desperately to contact them to tell them that my page was hacked, password and email changed and there was no way I could log in to remove the hacked photos from my account. I learned that there is a two step authentication process by which those on Instagram can protect their pages which I highly recommend you do if you are on Instagram. I will not be using their services anymore, but I will say that am grateful that within a day of complaints by me and some of my followers, the page was deleted and will never be resurrected by me.
I know a lot of people who use Instagram for family photos, etc. In my research there were tons of people who had been hacked as I had and they had to jump through hoops to authenticate themselves to Instagram and some of them lost their photos entirely. It’s an epidemic now in this cyberworld that there are people who choose to arbitrarily hack into other people’s accounts and not just with Instagram, but I’ve heard with Facebook and other social media.
Be wary, be careful, and take precautions dear friends. It can be a dangerous world out there. I hope this never happens to you and I am grateful that the crisis is now averted for me. But perhaps in sharing my story, you will be more vigilant so that you don’t experience this unseen, disturbing violation of your social media account.
My Mom recently lost her sister with whom she lived in a memory care facility. It broke my heart to deliver the news to her, so I remained mum for a while and didn’t tell her. She believed our Aunt was still alive in the hospital for longer than she was, as we contemplated how to tell her the sad news.
But God and the Universe had different plans. For you see, her resident friends who knew Aunt Mable were also concerned about Aunt Mable and wondered when she would return home. Mom was told that she was still in the hospital getting treatment, but in truth, she had passed away. Little could any of us know that one little lady, who is wheelchair bound, blind and has hallucinations along with memory issues would be able to succeed in calling the hospital in hopes that Mom could talk with Aunt Mable and get more information. A miracle unto itself that she accomplished this with her cell phone. Sadly, she got the news that Mable had passed away and in a loving manner told Mom. I know she thought she was helping, but her announcement wasn’t what we had planned. We were trying to get to Mom to tell her ourselves in person.
Looking through the eyes of an observer, this little lady’s heart was in the right place. She saw our Mom upset and wanted to help and when I see the situation with a loving heart, I am grateful. But in that moment when Mom reached out to me, sobbing that she had heard that her sister had passed away and was frantic, I felt powerless. I had wanted so much to shield Mom from the pain and be there when she found out in order to help her through her grief. In the end though, life unfolded as it was meant to be.
It is hard for anyone with memory issues to remember, let alone to keep the information that a loved one has passed away, for their ability to remember fades and rallies, moment to moment. The acceptance of what feels unacceptable (a death of a sister) is too much for the mind to handle and it fades, only to return after a bit and the grief begins again. It’s a roller coaster for all involved as we try so desperately to soothe a broken heart as the knowledge comes and goes, along with the grief.
There’s no easy way and from my experiences, the only rule is to keep a loving heart, flow with the moment’s understanding and continue to offer love and support to Mom. That’s all we can do in every situation quite honestly. Be open, be kind and love.
May you find your Sunday to be filled with peace and love, this is my wish always.
When you don’t have a ‘valentine’ to love on Valentine’s Day it can feel awkward, especially if in years past, you did have someone whom you loved, but for whatever reason, you are not together anymore. Separations can be due to a variety of reasons which makes it hard when it seems like the whole world is celebrating a day of love with their sweetie.
But, I like to think of Valentine’s Day as a holiday for cherishing the relationships we have with others! It doesn’t need to be only romantic love that we celebrate that day! Not at all! For me, since my circumstances have changed, I celebrate Valentine’s Day with gratitude for my children, my family, my soul family and my friends who have filled my life with love. In fact, let’s celebrate Valentine’s Day together as you’re a part of my blogging family filled with love! Thanks for being here with me. I celebrate our connections today too!
So tomorrow, when the heart rises to meet the day, smile! Greet the hearts and flowers day with gratitude for all of the love you have shared on your life’s journey! Give thanks for the past loves, the present loves and look forward to the future loves! But above all, enjoy the present love which envelopes your heart and soul today! Enjoy the little kindnesses that are shown to you and smile to pass along those kindnesses as well. We could have a lovefest here on Planet Earth if everyone, for just one day, loved all humankind. Wouldn’t that be the very best Valentine’s Day ever?
So how about you? How are you celebrating Valentine’s Day?
Just a little reminder for us all. May you enjoy every precious moment, especially this one!
Inspirational credit: https://www.ramdass.org/his-holiness-the-14th-dalai-lama/
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