If you are someone who had a good relationship with your Mom, you may understand how I’m feeling today. My Mom passed away over a month ago and while in my heart I know she’s in Heaven, I miss her. There’s an emptiness in my life lately because she was such a huge part of my life.
She has visited me in various forms to let me know that she’s here with me in spirit. For those that understand what I’m saying, perhaps you’ve had similar experiences as well. I’d love to hear about them if you’re willing to share so please feel free to write in the comments or reach out via email if you’d prefer a more private conversation.
Grief is a funny thing isn’t it? It sneaks up on us from time to time in the most surprising ways. My Mom liked Talbots clothing so when I received a catalogue from there, I thought of what Mom might like and then it hit me. I don’t need to buy Mom anything because she’s not here on this earth anymore. Tears sprung to my eyes and for a moment the bereft feeling hit me hard. I wiped the tears away and then sent up a prayer to her.
Then the other day I had a question and knew my Mom would know the answer. Sadly, I realized I can’t ask her and that I probably would never know the answer to that particular question because she’s not here. Again, the tears fell.
I’ve learned that losing a loved one and the grieving process that follows in order to heal takes time. It’s not easy as you may know from experience. Unexpected memories pop up at times that can bring up a fresh round of tears, but in time with healing, we can fondly remember the good times and be grateful for our loved one’s presence in our lives.
For we carry their presence in our hearts as the legacy of who they were stays alive in the memories of those who are still here. Gone but not forgotten. Isn’t that the way we are remembered?
I saw this quote today and felt like I had to share it with you! How incredibly inspiring Anne Frank was even under her dire circumstances! I recall reading her diary when I was in school and it reminded me of how strong we can be when we have no other choice!
So since it’s Monday and the start of a new week (and the start of school for some students), I thought I’d send a little bit of inspiration to you!
Mother Teresa is quoted as saying, “We can do no great things, only small things with great love,” which to me is a Simple Sunday Reminder.
I harken back many times to the moments when a simple kindness helped me so much. I imagine that many of you have felt that gratitude when it happened to you as well. The receiving of a thoughtful gesture, even as simple as a smile when one is feeling low can feel like something great when love and kindness accompany the small thing.
Simple kindness can be very healing. One doesn’t need big expensive gestures to make a difference. It is in the small acts of loving kindness that we build a bridge between souls and fortify relationships and spread love across continents.
A kind word, a hug, a smile and taking the time to listen with an open heart don’t cost a cent. Sharing a moment with someone in even the simplest of ways often makes more of an impact and a difference than ‘great things’ which aren’t required.
Mother Teresa’s quote has often been a part of my life here. As my life simplified, it has become even more of an integral part of my soul vision. I see clearly how all that has happened in my life has led me to a greater understanding of myself and of others. Peace reigns in my heart. In that simple peace there is just that, simplicity, without the trappings of what is no longer needed.
So my Simple Sunday Reminder is, as always, to continue to shine your heartlights and know that the ‘small things with great love’ matter more than you will ever realize. God Bless. Enjoy your Sunday!
My Mom passed away last week. We were blessed to have been able to be with her during the last few days of her life and even as she took her final breath, my sister and I were there with her. While it is heart-wrenching to watch a loved one pass away before your eyes, we felt honored that she allowed us to accompany her as she transitioned from the earthly plane to Heaven. Even as I write this to you, tears are pouring down my face because I believe that we all understand the universal grief of losing a loved one.
I have written before about my Dad’s passing years ago and occasionally about my Mom over the years. While losing my Dad was very hard, losing my Mom has been even devastating. Perhaps it is that a Mother’s love for her daughter is unconditional or on a deeper level, I feel bereft by losing my Mother-ship, physically from this earthly plane. My Mom’s love knew no bounds. She never tired of telling me how much she loved me. I never questioned her love for me which was a huge blessing for which I am grateful. She even signed every letter with “I love you, Always and Forever (A & F)” lest I forget. I never forgot.
Even in the end, her heartlight was shining and it is that beacon of light that inspires me daily. Her innate unconditional love for her family, friends and loved ones never dimmed. Her genuine smile and authentic love and caring for everyone touched many hearts during her lifetime.
Mom role-modeled the importance of kindness and connecting with others. She loved to have fun, to laugh and to be silly. Her infinite patience made her a beloved elementary teacher. Her faith in God and the comfort she felt by reading the Bible sustained her. She passed onto us all of those traits and more.
What a legacy of love to leave here on this Earth! The outpouring of kindness, the sharing of beautiful memories from others and the compliments about my Mom have sustained me this past week for hers was a life well-loved. I can only pray that when it is my time that my children will have a similar experience. I shall continue to work diligently to keep Mom’s heartlight legacy shining with love for all.
Thank you for reading today. I extend my loving embrace to all of you who know this grief personally, of losing a beloved person in your life, especially a Mom who only gave unconditional love to all and accepted everyone for who they are.
Last night’s moon over the trees was spectacular although this iPhone photo doesn’t really do it justice. But what I noticed was the pale blue orbs, one larger at the top of the photo and one smaller on the left side by the trees. I take a lot of photos with my iPhone and sometimes I find interesting additives that the Universe puts in them which I don’t.
I took a second photo immediately after taking this one and I must have moved my camera because it seems blurry. What I find interesting is that the moon isn’t photographed, but the mystery line is. I live out in the country with no streetlights nor lights on the houses nearby so I am not sure what the line is. Does anyone know?
I didn’t draw the line myself and I don’t know how to photoshop. I only know how to put a photo in canva and write my blog name on it. Note the small light again over the tree on the left by the roofline. It is in a similar position in the top photo as well. Hmmmm…. Perhaps it is a star? I didn’t notice when I took the photo, so I guess it could be. Tonight I’ll go out again and try to recreate the photos and if I find something interesting, I will share.
Did you take photos last night of the moon? While we had lots of citizens shooting off fireworks nearby, I only saw a few minutes of someone’s down the road from me which were pretty. I wasn’t going to venture out to be in a crowd to watch the town fireworks this year. Lucky for me, the neighbor’s short but pretty fireworks display was enough!
I hope you had a great Fourth of July and that you were able to celebrate with your families. Time seems to be dragging and yet the days are speeding up on the calendar. Is that an age thing? Or related to the pandemic? Are you feeling that way too?
Make sure you get outside tonight to see the full moon if you haven’t already. I hope you don’t have a cloudy night and you can clearly see the beauty in the night sky.
Keep shining your heartlights. We all need to keep increasing love in this world.
Being a Jersey Girl, the beach has always been important to me so when I saw this photo on FaceBook, I copied and pasted it here. I wish I knew who the photographer was so I could give proper credit, but I don’t. So thank you whomever you are!
We are in strange times here, aren’t we? The laws (rules) keep changing so I’m never sure where we stand. I guess that’s what the pandemic has started. It’s made a lot uncertain in the world. It’s brought fear, escalated emotions and a wide political divide. But I’m not here to talk about that because that’s not what my blog is about as you know.
Instead, I want to go back in history and remember how our country was founded and the unity that breaking off from England to establish the USA resulted in a firm foundation. I wish that unity again for all of us. I wish we could see eachother as the same, yet different. To be united as human citizens of our country and to celebrate what each person has to offer. Because we all have goodness to offer and talents to share.
I’m reminded of hearing how we all bleed the same color and when we die, we all turn to the same dust. What if we could remember that? That yes, our skin may be different shades, our backgrounds and childhoods may vary, our socio-economic levels may not be the same, but…what is the same? We are all humans on this planet who need the same things – food, shelter, clothing, air, water and love.
Love is what brings us together. Love heals. Love unites. Love is a universal human emotion that grows when shared. We can exponentially expand love without lessening it. Love is essential.
I wish you love today and always. Keep shining your heart lights dear friends!
Rabbit Rabbit, White Rabbit, White Rabbit came to mind this morning as it does at the beginning of each month. What once began as a little family tradition and a monthly post here on The Presents of Presence has diminished over time.
There has been much turmoil lately in our world and I have been not posting as frequently for some time now. I have missed you all very much, but other aspects of my life have prioritized themselves and blogging as you know, has taken a back seat on my to do list.
The dense dark vibrations of this world continue, but the choosing to be of the light, to shine our heartlights as we are meant to, in the most peaceful way possible emerges and blossoms in this month ahead. What is not of love will dim and what is of love will grow as we connect with our inner heartlights and radiate kindness, compassion, and understanding with peace in our hearts.
We shine the light on truth and goodness. We hold sacred the loving space in our hearts, minds and souls. We join together with those who resonate similarly with gratitude for the blessings of awareness available to all of us. May truth prevail. May love surround you. May mercy and forgiveness be yours. May peace reign.
It’s sunny today which automatically puts a smile on my face these days. Although with the news being as it is, the sunny positivity amidst the unrest lately makes staying home even easier for me during the quarantine. While I’m not one to ostrich myself and put my head in the sand instead of being aware of what’s going on, I find the negative forces overwhelming. Are you feeling similarly?
I find that shining our heartlights is even more important these days. Connecting with people who raise our loving vibrations is necessary to stay afloat during these uncertain times. Reaching out helps each of us to continue to grow compassion, understanding and the light which is so needed in our world these days.
I am saddened by the news more often than not, since it seems that we are being divided in so many ways, instead of coming together as a world full of love. Stress, fear and negativity spike often and it leaves me feeling drained more often than not, which is why I haven’t been posting as often.
I am grateful for the peace within me that radiates as the warm breeze flows outside my home. Nature has been calling and Gaia’s love has helped to center me when trouble comes. I’ve had many encounters lately with all different animals who share this parcel of land with me. The three groundhogs, Clover the bunny, the hawks and birds, the heron who flies by occasionally and the chipmunks who race across the outdoor patio have brought much joy to my days with their antics. Unfortunately, my camera is not as quick as they are, otherwise I’d share my experiences with you. Then there are the deer and the nighttime bats who appear at dusk. Do you ever take the time to notice all the creatures around you?
I hope my post finds you all healthy and happy and safe from the virus that is plaguing our planet. I pray for health and peace for all of us. I keep you all in my prayers. Keep shining your heartlights as we need each other!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the Moms! To all those women who are caretakers of others, whether they are your own children, your stepchildren or your fur babies or even if you are taking care of someone else. Today we celebrate YOU! Because being a Mom is a blessing!
I am blessed to be a Mom too and my children have been wonderful to me, especially today. I am blessed to have my Mom here on Earth as well and it was great to see her virtually through the magic of technology even though we couldn’t visit in the same room. The love that Mom radiates always envelopes me with a comforting hug.
Because the secret to being a good Mom is simple: LOVE! When we love ourselves and others, we are nurturing and love is the key to that precious feeling. Unconditional love, without barriers, is the blessing beyond all other love.
So today, I feel tremendously grateful for the love I feel from my children, my Mom and from all the other women in my life who have reached out in kindness to wish me a Happy Mother’s Day. We all unite in this moment together as women.
Take a few minutes to make your Mom feel special today. Even if she is not here anymore, you can send up a prayer of appreciation for all she did for you. She brought you into this world with a loving heart and did her best for you.
God Bless all the Moms today…Keep shining your heart lights!