Confusion, extreme confusion, often comes during late afternoon or at night for those with Alzheimer’s and so that’s why it’s called sundowning. Lately, we’ve seen it come and go at all times of day, with no predictable time frame.
Watching a loved one fret and worry is exhausting for the loved one with Alzheimer’s Disease and Dementia and for those of us who care for them. As the mind whirls into a vortex of unpredictability, thoughts firing at random, words tumbling out nonsensically, a helplessness sinks in and an urgency to help in any way possible to allow for peace and tranquility.
When sleep can be encouraged, it seems to dilute the chaos in their minds, allowing our loved one a little peace. Changing the subject to one of love and beauty helps as well, but sometimes that button cannot be unpushed, the channel cannot be changed and we all whirl in the frenzy for a bit.
Have you ever experienced this as a caregiver of a loved one?
It’s not easy to remain untouched by the emotionality of the situation, let alone what is unknowingly coming out of their mouth. Thoughts flicker, reality surges and fades and my heart breaks wide open with sadness for I cannot even begin to fathom how hard this is for her, let alone for me.
This disease is just so hard and old age, as the adage goes, ‘ain’t for sissies.’
Thank you Diana. Sending hugs back to you xo
Yes and yes xxx
I know you understand dear friend xoxo
My heart breaks for you and your loved one. Many prayers coming your way.
Thank you so much. I believe in the power of prayer xo
Clicking the like button doesn’t seem right here. There is nothing to like about your situation. I certainly wish they would find out what causes this insidious disease of the mind and find better ways to treat and deal with it. It’s hard on families and staff in care homes. I know you are exhausted in every way. Take care.
Thank you Marlene.♥
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