Look at the glass above, what do you see? Do you see a glass 1/2 empty or a glass 1/2 full? I’ve heard that how you see your glass is a metaphor for how you look at your life! Have you heard that too?
Now I’m normally a glass 1/2 full gal which you might have already guessed. I innately try to find the good in every person, every situation and every day. But, I’m human and in being in touch with my human-ness, there are bound to be days when that glass looks a bit emptier to me. Today just happens to be one of them.
So what I thought was going to be an uplifting post, is turning out a bit differently than previously anticipated. But one thing I’ve learned is to go with the flow, so here I flow…
I think that in being real, I have to tell you that I”m feeling a bit down in the dumps today. Being sick with what I believe is strep throat and bronchitis (diagnosing myself a week after the rest of the family), I feel exhausted. My glass isn’t overflowing, nor is it 1/2 full, it’s down to the last drop. And you know what, it’s ok with me.
Why you may ask? How can it be ok to have a glass 1/2 empty or even viewed as empty? What happened to that 1/2 full gal? Where did she go? What’s going on with her?
Well, plenty my friends. She’s realized that she’s not superhuman and that even Wonder Woman needs to take a break and take care of herself. Whew, for me, that’s a hard lesson to learn because I juggle more balls in the air than a Ringling Brothers clown ~ and I’ve laid those balls down gently in order to pamper me and heal myself today. I am learning the hard way that I can’t stretch myself like Stretch Armstrong (do you remember that boy doll?) and still continue to carry on my merry way. I can’t be everything to everyone, nor is it even a possibility to be everything to one person.
I’ve given up, laid down my juggling balls. I can’t be responsible for others all the time over myself ~ even though I want to be helpful to everyone. I can’t put others’ needs ahead of my own by just thinking that I can march through with the determination that I use when my energy fails me.
As I’ve written before, it’s my job to make me happy ~ and it’s your job to make you happy. I can help, but it’s not my responsibility ~ for each of us has our own life to live. It matters not if the relationship is romantic, or if it’s with your parent, your child, a friend, a family member or whomever. It’s simply, Love vs. Happiness.
I still have my glass 1/2 full attitude, but today’s glass is ok to just be what it is ~
1/2 empty and 1/2 full.
And that’s alright with me!
Is the glass half-full, or half-empty?